This paper explores self-exile as a form of feminist resistance within the Iranian diaspora, focusing on feminist activists in Germany during the Jin, Jiyan, Azadî uprising of 2022–2023. Drawing on biographical interviews and Sara Ahmed’s concept of willfulness, the study examines how activists chose visible political engagement despite the risk of permanently losing the possibility of return to Iran. Self-exile is conceptualized as a complex act of agency: simultaneously disempowering due to physical separation from the place of origin and empowering through bodily autonomy, political consciousness, and resistance to fear. The testimonies highlight the ambivalence of self-exile—its empowering and transformative dimensions alongside profound emotional loss and turmoil. By framing self-exile as a deliberate feminist stance, this research contributes to understanding exile and diaspora as evolving, overlapping categories, foregrounding the embodied, affective, and political complexities of feminist subjectivity across borders.